Is Your Relationship a Straightjacket Built For Two?

In irrelationship, both parties are invested in using what looks and seems like a connection with another person to maintain a safe distance from intimacy—in short, to hide. Once they’ve agreed to the set-up, it’s locked in—we call this Brainlock. What the key players in irrelationship—Performer and Audience—do to maintain it is called their song-and-dance routine.

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